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How to Get Unstuck & Get Productive Again

Feeling seriously stuck? What if I told you there's a way to get you unstuck within the hour -- including the time it takes to read this post?

Are you familiar with The Eisenhower Matrix?

When it comes to scheduling out my days effectively and getting out of #overwhelm, I find this approach to un-scrambling my thoughts really handy. It's a fast-working tool pretty much guaranteed to help get me out of feeling stuck and sort out my projects.

And if you're a #multipassionate like me, with many ideas and interests on the go, I'm certain it can help you too.

Let's face it: STUCK is just another way to say OVERWHELMED

The Eisenhower Matrix (also sometimes referred to as the Urgent-Important Matrix or the Do-Decide-Delegate method) is a powerful tool for time management and, more specifically, for decision-making.

Fun fact! It's named after Dwight D. Eisenhower – American army general, statesman, and 34th President of the United States -- who was known for being good at making tough decisions quickly.

So he developed this system to help him prioritize tasks and make decisions more easily. He believed that great time management means being effective as well as efficient.

You can't steer a parked car; that's why it's so hard to decide anything from a stuck place without any movement or momentum.

This exercise helps get some stuff moving -- here's how you do it, step-by-step.

How To Get Unstuck With Your Own Eisenhower Matrix:

First, start by doing a massive brain dump of everything you want to do: a huge to-do list with everything you can think of on it, or, if you have several lists going already (hello, overwhelm!), gather them up for this exercise. Pull it all out of your head, in any order.

Next, grab a blank sheet of paper, and draw a large equal grid of 4 square boxes.

There are a couple of ways to do this next part, but here's my favorite:

Up the left side of your grid determines the level of importance. Across the top of your grid assesses Urgency.

Here's how your Eisenhower Matrix grid will take shape:

Top Row - Very Important

  1. The upper left box is for tasks that are Very Important and Urgent (Do these tasks first)

  2. The upper right: Very Important but Not Urgent (Schedule these in your calendar this week)

Bottom Row - Not Important

  1. Lower left: Not Important but Urgent (Delegate these or automate them using tech)

  2. Lower right: Not Important and Not Urgent (Delete, Eliminate these - or relegate them to personal time)

The trick here is correctly identifying the very important items from the rest on your to-do list, so you're not spending time on tasks that suck up all your time but won't move you forward.

Here's how you can tell the difference:


These are tasks that directly move you closer to your long-term business goals/objectives


Tasks that are time-sensitive and/or must be done before anything else.

They often have a due date, or are otherwise pressing in nature.

Examples of how to sort your tasks

Here are some prompts to get the ideas flowing, so you can fill up your own Eisenhower Matrix. Of course, these will vary depending on the type of work you do, but it's a place to start:

Examples that could fall under "Very Important and Urgent":

These tasks are where action is required of you; and/or tied to a specific date & time. Do these first!

  • Deadline-driven tasks/projects, client appointments, etc

  • Dealing with upheaval from pressing problems (i.e. sick kiddos, natural disasters, pandemics)

  • Sending new client proposals/closing sales

  • Things that cannot be delegated or automated in any possible way (* if you're a one-person operation, keep reading - there's a special section below for you)

  • Live events, launches, etc

Examples that could fall under "Very Important but Not Urgent":

These are your ongoing priorities that require intentionality around getting them done, but have little urgency -- they might not have a specific "due date". Schedule these into your calendar and stay on them.

Beware! These tasks tend to be the first to get pushed off our radar when we get "busy". Sometimes indefinitely. In my experience, letting these tasks slide is the most detrimental to your feeling of progress. In other words, get back on top of these, and you'll feel like you're moving again.

  • Tending to important financials (invoicing, budgeting, etc)

  • Developing or brainstorming new projects, business offerings

  • Learning and mastering new business skills

  • Tending to health goals (meal planning & prepping, workouts, meditation, etc)

  • Creating solid social media content, building relationships on social, networking

  • Writing & sharing it outward (if relevant)

  • Get some dang sleep

A quick lesson on "Urgency":

I invite you to make sure the time pressure is coming from you and is for your benefit (such an important submission deadline for a chance to get published) and not some external source (like a colleague or client who's way behind or can't make up their mind, and now they're making it your problem). Most of the time, when I've been saddled with other people's urgencies, it was a result of poor boundaries on my part. Learning to say no is one of the greatest entrepreneurial skills you can master!!

Examples that could fall under Not Important but Urgent:

Things that might appear time-sensitive, but don't directly impact your company's big goals. Sometimes, you don't even need to be the one doing them. These should be delegated or automated whenever possible.

  • Answering texts, emails, calls the second they come in (set an auto-responder email if you must give them an immediate reply, but otherwise set aside time to address these in batches, not as they come in.) You own your time, not them.

  • Scheduling meeting times the old way with email back-and-forths, a.k.a. being your own receptionist (Thursday at 10? No? How about Monday at 2:30? Ok let's try Tuesday at 1...) Ain't NOBODY got time for that. Use an online appointment scheduling tool and save your sanity!

  • For some, this might include bookkeeping and scanning receipts

  • Answering the same questions over and over (install a good FAQ area on your website)

  • Manually posting to social (use a social scheduling tool that will do it for you)

  • Weighing many complex options to book flights (use Google Flights - it will collate all your options for you. Bonus tip: use it in an Incognito browser window so the ticket prices don't keep creeping up each time you look!)

  • Editing (and re-editing, and re-editing) your written material ad infinitum

  • Reorganizing your papers (you know when this is necessary vs. when it's procrastination!)

A quick lesson on being a one-woman-shop and believing 'you're not able to delegate':

"I can't delegate to anyone, it's just me!"

"It's so much faster if I do it myself!"

"It's too complicated to try to do this any other way!"

These are things I hear all the time. Usually from the least happy and most overworked people out there.

The truth is that when we aren't happy with our progress, we can all adapt to better or more efficient ways we could be spending our time.

If you've read this far then I know you get stuck and can use a shift in perspective! In fact, that's usually the root of the issue: being attached to ways of doing things that are sub-optimal, just because we're used to them. Be mindful of where you might be falling into this thinking trap, notice it, and then resolve to be more open to new solutions. Believe me -- #thingsIlearnedthehardway

At the very least, if you * truly * cannot get around being the person who does all the things, then at least make the work easier on yourself by deciding when to tackle the harder stuff (at the time of day when you're most alert and undistracted) and when to slip in some way-less-demanding tasks (like at 3PM on a Friday).

This approach stems from the true nature of entrepreneurship as explained in The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It, where the author Michael E. Gerber talks about successful entrepreneurs having to wear 3 hats and learn to alternate between them effectively. They are: The Visionary (CEO), The Manager (Admin tasks), and the Technician (the one doing all the work). Suffice it to say, if you spend time exclusively in any of these roles, you'll quickly run into trouble. So learning your rhythms and figuring out when you show up at your most efficient, or most creative, or most spaced-out, becomes invaluable to your progress.

And that my friend, is still a form of delegating! When your smartest-you assigns tasks to the least-productive-you, you're ensuring you don't waste your best asset (aka your juicy brain full of motivation and good ideas) by doing menial or repetitive tasks as those times.

Examples of items that could fall under Not Important and Not Urgent:

Why are you wasting any of your precious and limited time on this earth doing these things? I'm half-kidding -- we all need downtime doing things we enjoy -- but you will recognize some of these as major time-sucks that just might be encroaching on your business progress during peak hours. These tasks either need to be deleted completely, or strictly relegated to downtime.

Then again, for some of these... maybe not even in your downtime 😉

  • Endless social media scrolling aka doomscrolling

  • Perfectionism, impossible standards, no grace for a learning curve & trying your best

  • Overthinking

  • Overplanning

  • Over-researching

  • Listening to every stray thought your Imposter Syndrome is throwing your way today

  • Busywork

  • Some types of phonecalls

  • Many types of emails

  • Youtubing or Netflixing

  • Non-work tasks like running errands, shopping or cleaning the house

There you have it. I hope these examples will help to get you sorted and get you moving again!!

When you practice using the Eisenhower Matrix regularly, you may uncover a simple foundational principle about the tasks that pop up in our work:

"The urgent are never important, and the important are never urgent." - Eisenhower

Agree or disagree?

Over the years, I've adapted several productivity methods to optimize my days. My work-from-home productivity has finally reached a place I'm happy with. This is new territory, my friend!

Please share with other entrepreneurial mamas so we can all help each other.

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My name is Val; Online Marketing & Personal Branding Coach, Writer, WiX Design Partner, and Mama. If you're a female coach, consultant, entrepreneur-solopreneur or creative visionary looking to build your online presence, you're in the right place! More


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